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Social Media and Our Perception of Success and Failure

Go on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter etc. and try and find a post or picture of someone depicting a positive aspect of their life, whether it's them on an expensive holiday, having a nice time with all their friends smiling, or perhaps a post about some success in their work or academic life. It probably won't be long, scrolling through, before you find one, or several. Now try and find one that depicts a less positive aspect of someone's life. Perhaps showing how lonely they are, how they failed their exam, got fired from work, are eating simple and cheap food etc. It will no doubt be much harder, if not near impossible to find. Why? No one wants to show people the boring and rubbish parts of their life, but instead want to show everyone how good their lives are: how happy they are, how successful they are, how rich they are, how life is just so perfect! No one posts their failures. It's obvious, isn't it? It's completely natural that people want to be perce

Planting Seeds That Never Existed

Earlier this week, Boris Johnson was criticised for saying Muslim women wearing burkas (an outer garment worn by women in some Islamic tradition) "look like letter-boxes" and for comparing them to bank-robbers. Unsurprisingly, he has aggravated a number of people and has been criticised for his rather negligent comments.  Not soon after, however, the chair of Mosques and Imams National Advisory Board (MINAB), Imam Qari Asim MBE, stated that "Boris Johnson has legitimised hatred towards Muslim women by his burka remarks." Rather counter-productively, making statements like this, could have even more negative consequences to society than the initial remarks themselves. It is completely understandable how Johnson's comments have caused offence to the Islam community, but to then state that they "legitimise hatred", is potentially even more inflammatory, and, unhelpfully plants that into the minds of the accused, and those that support the accused

Mental Health

As written by a friend on Facebook: I have seen a lot of the  # itsokaynottobeokay  movement across my news feed recently and I think it raises some issues worth talking about.  This movement has been successful in getting general attention for what is a pertinent issue that needs to be thought and talked about well.  I think it’s important, however, that this doesn’t simply develop into a trend in which people copy and paste the same text, statistics, and pose. This movement is trying to raise real awareness about young people who lose their lives to suicide or are, perhaps, at risk of losing their lives because of the degree to which they suffer in them.  Evidently, I don’t and can’t see the thought process that goes on behind every post but, going by what I see, I ask: where is there real awareness shown in copying and pasting? Aren’t we meant to be showing this is something we’re willing to talk about, something we personally understand and are willing to help with? Fo

The Pain of Discipline or The Pain of Regret

In the beginning, it’s difficult to see the effects, but staying “disciplined” to the plan compounds over time until the results are always greater than you imagined. Just like investing money, except this is a safe bet... “We must all suffer from one of two pains… the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. Discipline weighs ounces, while regret weighs TONS!” It's time for you to decide; would you rather put yourself through the pain of discipline now, to achieve your goals and ambitions, or would you rather get to old age later, and feel the regret of not having forced yourself more to achieve what you wanted?